Girls, since pretty much the beginning of mankind, have been testing men. And girls will continue doing this. Until most likely the end of mankind.
Even in the garden, the man was tested to eat the forbidden fruit. Why oh why did we eat the fruit?
Much of what girls do? Can seem extremely confusing to us guys. Especially when it comes to tests. And the main reason for this is just because, we don’t really understand why?
In other words, we don’t understand the purpose of the test most of the time. And as most of you know failing the tests, that girls send your way isn’t the end of the world.
But if you do it enough times over time. Girls are going to lose interest in you and they’re going to be less attracted to you. We don’t want that. So first up.
#1) TO SEE HOW STRONG YOU ARE
We have one of the main reasons, why a girl might test you? And it is to see, how strong you are? It’s no secret that most girls want a man. Who is strong.
And men traditionally are known for their strength. Sure girls want a man who is strong enough to defend her against some crazy guy in back alley of New York.
But the main type of strength that girls are looking for. When they test you is emotional strength. Now we all know especially lately that the world is a tough place.
And girls desire a man, who has an emotional state. That is pretty much made of solid steel. Now the main reason why girls will test you? To see how strong you are mentally.
Is because they understand that there are a lot of fakes out there. The last thing that a girl wants to do is to find out later. That the guy that she was with is actually a really insecure. Really mentally weak and crazy type of guy.
So most girls prefer to go straight for the juggler right from the start. And make sure that the guy that they are interested in is. Strong like a man should be.
Many guys out there are really good at faking strength in the short term. And all the girls are trying to do is find out if you really are the strong man that you are portraying yourself to be.
2)EMOTIONAL STRENGTH AND CONFIDENCE STRENGHT
Why girls will test you. And it to see if you really are as confident as you’ve led her to believe. Now emotional strength and confidence tend to go hand in hand. But they are actually two different things.
Yet both are commonly found within high value males. The reason why girls test guys to see if they really are as confident, as they portray themselves to be.
Is because many guys can give off the image of being confident. When they are really just putting on an act.
Faking confidence is like pretending to be really good at a video game. At first you might be able to fool a lot of onlookers. But the people who, really play the game.
Or the girls who really know the difference between a high and low quality male. They ‘re the ones who are going to be able to see right through it.
Now if any of you have ever tried to just fake confidence. It’s actually really easy to do, and the result are actually pretty incredible. Because many people just assume that you really are confident.
Even if you’re not. But at the end of the day. There is no foundation to support that confidence. You will be left feeling like a fraud or imposter.
Which can leave your self-confidence in even worse shape than it was before you started faking it. So the second reason why girls test us. Is because they want to see if we really are confident or if we are just simply putting on an act.
3)WHAT DOES HE REALLY WANT?
This test is not intended to probe your emotional strength or your skills with women. But instead, its purpose is to see how much you actually care about her.
One of the most important things for a girl to know about a guy as quickly as possible. Is whether or not he cares about her in terms of being with her long term or being with her short term.
Something that a lot of guys will do, is act like they care about a girl with a soul intention of getting something that they want from her.
And what girls are trying to find out is. If you only want that one thing or if you’re actually truly interested in her. The reason this is important is because girls tend to be more attracted to guy, who show less interest in them.
I know, I know it’s totally paradoxical. Why would a girl want to choose the guy? Who is the least interested in her. Makes no sense right.
Reason why girls want to test for the guy who is least interested in them. Is because that is the guy who is most likely the best catch for her.
Girls just like guys have, and they always will want what they can’t have. It all goes back to that fateful day in the garden.
As humans we only wanted the fruit because we were told that we couldn’t have it. If on the flip side the fruit was beginning us to eat it. We probably wouldn’t even want it.
Something you have to understand is that girls are going to find various ways to test your interest level or how much you are into her. And it is always better to appear less interested than more interested because the more interested you appear to be in her.
The more desperate she will think you are. And there’s one thing that you should always remember about girls. And it is that we live in a world, where girls have something that we as guys want more than anything else.
The reason we want this thing is most likely due to our evolutionary need to spread our D.N.A far and wide across the planet.
And even if you can control your interest level. And appear to be less interested in that certain thing that every other man on the planet. Constantly thinks about.
Most other men simply cannot do this. This puts us in a curious position because even if we are not willing to give up everything for a girl that we find even moderately attractive.
There will always be hundreds. If not thousands if not millions of other men, who will and what this does is put girls in a position of power. When it comes to picking a mate.
Imagine if you had hundreds of girls showing interest in you. Willing to do or give almost anything for you. Most likely you would basically default to picking the best option available to you.
And this means that you would have to run tests on the girls to find the least desperate girl that you can find. And this is exactly what girls do when choosing a man.
There will always be guys out there who are far more desperate than you. So when a girl tests your interest level, it is ideal to present yourself as the guy, who only kind of likes her.
I know, it’s another paradox. But appearing less interested actually makes the girl more interested in you. Now next up.
DECEPTION
Fourth real reason, why girls test guys. And it is easily the most important one of them all. Something that most of us don’t realize.
Is that the world, that we think that we know. Is actually filled to the brim with deception. Every commercial on T.V is designed to seem like it has your best interests in mind.
Yet there is always an ulterior motive. Usually to sell you a product, that you probably don’t need. In the animal kingdom birds use bright feathers, in a way that makes them seem bigger and better than their male competitors.
Some male animals act like the females of their species to trick the females into lowering their guard. At which point the male sneaks closer. And ends up doing, what it is? That the cam there to do.
The point I’m trying to say make here is that. Many things in life, can be very deceptive. And humans are no different.
Many of the evilest men in history, were able to do. What they set out to do. Through the use of deceptive charm or simply by deceiving people in some other way.
As guys, we are capable of doing all sorts of weird things. In an attempt to get girls to find us attractive or in an attempt to get what we set out to get.
And then later the girls find out that, they didn’t actually get what they signed up for. The most common example of this is guys who act like their rich popping bottles and renting expensive sports cars.
when due to enormous amounts of debt. They’re actually poorer than the guy, who makes very little income. But doesn’t act wealthy.
This is just one example of some of the many different things that we guys do. To try to deceive or trick women into thinking that we are more important or more valuable or a better catch than we actually are.
And guys will do all sorts of weird things. If they think that it will get them closer to achieving their evolutionary goals. So to speak and one of the main reasons, why girls test us, men? Is simply because they want to see if we are real or if we are fake.
Image if you met up with what you thought was a really pretty girl? And although she is pretty on the outside. You ended up finding out later that she was actually a female bot.
Kind of a weird example, I know. But the point here is. That you would probably be mad if this happened because of what you thought you were getting.
And then what you actually got were two completely different things. So the fourth reason why girls really test guys is not to see If they are mentally strong. Not to see if they are actually confident.
And not even to check their interest level. So the fourth main reason, why girls test guys is really just to see if, on the whole, you say you are. And the more that we understand the real reasons behind why girls test us. Life as men tends to get just a little bit easier. And with that said until next time. Thanks for reading.
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