What if everything that you thought about girls was wrong. In the same way that the character in a video game is coded to behave in a certain way.
When you press a certain button. The same concept applies to girls. Meaning every girl on the planet is actually operating from lines of code or a set of mathematical instructions.
And like men, the basic instructions have been woven into our genetic code. So while each person on the planet is slightly different.
The underlying code that governs us is the same both men and women have code built into their D.N.A. That steers them in certain directions or causes them to act or behave in certain ways.
Depending on the stimulus received. As an example, when a man sees a visual image of a very attractive female. He can’t help but feel a certain way.
And this is due to the underlying code that governs him. When a girl begins interacting with a dominant high-status male. She also cannot help.
But feel a certain way, once again due to this underlying code. The more that you understand the code or in the case of women. The more that you understand female nature or why girls do what they do?
The better off you will be as a man. What you’re about to learn are three of the craziest things that I have ever learned about females in nature.
And these simple insights can help you to play the game better. Instead of being like every other guy who’s continuously mashing all the buttons on the controller.
And simply hoping for the best.
#1) GIRLS ARE BIOLOGICALLY PROGRAMMED TO TEST MEN
For thousands of years, women have been testing men. And they will never stop doing this because it is in their nature to do so.
It is not always the best thing for a man to hear, but girls on a biological level seek out the best males that they can get. In the same way that men seek out the best females that we can realistically get.
But the difference between us is that we as men are looking for one thing. And females are looking for something entirely different. The number one thing that girls look for when they test men is strength.
And if we oversimplify this it means that girls test for a confident man. Many guys out there in today’s world with that girls would just simply not test him.
Because maybe they don’t have as much confidence or mental strength as they would like. But asking such a thing is akin to the sun not to rise in the morning.
Girls want guys, who have a strong character and there’s just no way around this. Always remember that it is the underlying code. That tells females to seek the best male that they can find.
So instead of getting mad about it. The better thing to do would be to simply learn how to play the game better and to be more of the type of guy that girls test for.
When I finally learned that girls are biologically wired to test men. And there’s nothing that you can really do about it. It completely flipped my view of things upside, down.
Because instead of taking these tests personally. I finally understood that the test was not personal at all. And instead, it was actually biological.
Something you have to understand is that girls are not out to get you. They never have been and they never will be, in fact, if a girl is testing you.
It is actually a good thing because it means she has enough interest in you to peel back the layers to see what you really made of. Understanding that it is female in nature to test a man’s confidence.
Allows the man not to take tests personally. But it also allows him to anticipate them. And both of these things are very powerful.
#2)GIRLS ARE EXPERTS AT SPOTTING FAKES
One of the craziest things that I’ve ever learned about girls. Is that due to genetic advantages the girls are practically experts at reading other people and more specifically spotting fakes?
Many of us guys after learning about alpha males at first times. Start to believe that we can simply emulate the behavior of a natural alpha male.
So to do this we puff out our chest. And we lower our voice a little bit and try to be cocky and funny around the girl that we like. The girl that we end up meeting with her a near superhuman ability to read other humans. Immediately notices something is off the way that we are acting around her.
Maybe it was the slight crack in her voice or the way that her eyes darted around the room anxiously for a split second. Whatever it was it doesn’t really matter, because after noticing that something is off.
Girl’s gonna throw a test our way. And easily expose the fake act that we are putting on. And then what happens with most guys is that after this happens to them one time.
They decide that pretending to be alpha. Just doesn’t work and they end up giving up this why pretending to be alpha or pretending to be confident. Doesn’t actually work that well unless you do it enough that you actually become alpha.
Or actually become confident. Once I learned that it’s basically impossible to fool girls by pretending to be something that you are not. Because they have such a natural genetic gift for spotting fakes.
The way that I viewed this concept, completely flipped upside down. Because I realized that in order to appear confident. I had to actually become confident.
In order to appear high status, so in order to appear wealthy. I had to work hard and actually become these things rather than faking them and pretending to be something that I simply was not.
It’s like the guy who rents out a bedroom for 300 a month. And spends the rest of this 2000 paycheck on a super nice luxury car to give the appearance of being rich.
Becoming alpha or developing your masculine frame or squashing your weaknesses and your insecurities. These things simply do not happen overnight.
And pretending to be alpha, when you haven’t worked hard enough to actually become alpha. It just never really works and girls seriously have a genetic gift for spotting fake alphas or men who pretend to be something they are not.
Once you understand this instead of wasting time trying to pretend. You can start to spend your time actually becoming.
#3)LESS IS MORE
It one of the most life-changing craziest things that I ever learned about female nature. Is that nine times out of ten with girls less is actually more?
Something that a lot of girls want more than anything else is attending. And many guys make the mistake of thinking that if they give a girl more attention. They will get a more favorable response from her.
And for many guys, it is only at the point of a breakup or right after they send their ex that last text message. Telling her that he thinks that they’re better off as friends that all of a sudden she is interested in him again.
Paradoxically it is the act of giving a girl less attention that results in a more favorable result. But it’s not just attention. Buying a girl a more expensive gift or taking her on more vacations.
In many cases will have the opposite effect of what you are trying to achieve. Once I understood that with girls less is actually more. It totally changed how I interacted with them.
Once you realize that less is actually more. You will most likely give girls less attention and ironically they will give you more of their attention.
When you give a girl less physical time with you. She will want to spend more of her time with you. Whenever you text a girl that you just met less. She will most likely text you back more often.
And the wordless is just a way of saying the right amount or not too much. Many day traders who make money buying and selling stocks on a daily basis will tell you that.
In many cases, they actually lose money. The more that they trade during the day. In the previous blog, I’ve mentioned that girls are kind of like cats.
And the reason, for this, is because subtlety tends to work the best with them. We all know that many girls find muscular men attractive. But we also know that at some point more muscles become less attractive.
We also know that girls prefer men who are confident. Yet a man who is too confident or arrogant will be less attractive. Realizing that less is more with girls allowed me to calibrate or balance how much of certain things like attention.
I choose to give it to a girl. And by making many of these small but incredibly important changes to how you do things. Based on understanding the hidden code behind female nature.
You can completely change your life for the better. So many of the problems that guys have surrounding females have nothing to do with females themselves. It has everything to do with a lack of understanding. Pretty much everything, in reality, has an underlying code that governs it.
And while we still have much to learn as a bunch of creatures floating through space on a big blue rock. Many of the mysteries surrounding female nature have already been decoded.
These are some of the craziest things that I’ve ever learned about female nature. And the more that you understand these concepts. The less you’ll find yourself mashing all the buttons on the controller of attraction and hoping for the best. And with that said until next time thank you for reading this blog post.
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