INTRODUCTION:
It can be challenging to get a woman’s attention who isn’t interested in you. Use the proper strategy and frame of mind to improve your chances of success.
If you want to make a new friend or start a romantic relationship, be genuine and work on improving yourself. You can learn how to attract a woman’s attention from this post.
You’ll get advice on how to improve your attractiveness in this article. This includes ideas like looking your best, being more confident, and finding ways to talk to her.
You can connect with a woman who first showed no interest in you with persistence and time.
1) Work on yourself:-
To interest, a woman who is not interested focuses on bettering herself. To make yourself more attractive, focus on your appearance, fitness, and grooming. Additionally, work on building confidence and improving your social skills. You raise your chances of seducing a woman who is not interested in you by making these changes. I am sharing a story from my life.
Once upon a time, there was a friend named John who had always struggled with attracting women. He had had some bad relationships and was starting to doubt if he would ever find the right person. One day, he decided that it was time to take action and make some changes in his life. He realized that to attract the kind of woman he wanted, he needed to improve his appearance.
John started exercising and eating better to improve his health. He also started to dress better, buying clothes that fit him well and that made him feel more confident. He spent time grooming himself, getting regular haircuts, and keeping his beard trimmed.
John realized that when he started caring for himself, people treated him better. Both genders complimented him more, and he felt more at ease in social situations. He also began to receive more attention from women, which was a pleasant surprise for him.
One day, John was out at a bar with some friends when he saw a woman who caught his eye. She was beautiful and seemed to be having a great time with her friends. But when he tried to approach her, she responded and was not interested in talking to him.
John felt upset, but he didn’t quit. He knew that he needed to keep working on himself to attract the type of woman he desired. He exercised, ate well, and looked good. He also tried to be more outgoing and confident when he was out in public.
John ran into the same woman again, and this time, she was much more receptive to him. He was able to strike up a conversation with her and they ended up going on a date. Over time, they developed a strong connection and started a relationship.
John’s story shows that looking good is important for attraction. He improved his chances of attracting a woman by improving himself.
2) Emotional Attraction:
Emotional attraction is all about how you make another person FEEL. Connect with others using touch, smell, body language, behavior, tone of voice, confidence, and humor.
Emotions are also weird and sometimes challenging to understand. It’s better to evoke an emotion rather than none at all, even if it’s negative.
The worst situation, especially in romance, is the middle. It’s when you stay in that weird gray area where people are indifferent about you.
Why is that? Why is it better to trigger a negative emotion than no emotion whatsoever?
To fall in love, people need to have a mental image of you. You can’t fall in love with another person if you don’t have a mental image of them. If you don’t even think about another person, then there can’t be any chance for love.
Negative emotions are worse than no strong feelings from others. In reality, even if someone feels a negative emotion towards you, they’re going to think about you a lot.
They’re going to think, “Oh, that asshole. Why did he say that? He’s such an arrogant prick.” Women sometimes pick unkind men over nice ones.
We know the rest of the situation and still, she chooses him. She chooses him because he evokes emotions, which are exciting. Emotions make us feel alive and engaged in life.
Being indifferent to someone makes everything boring. You don’t feel supported. You don’t feel anything towards them. Negative emotions give a chance while no emotions do not.
I was a piano-playing virgin with a six-pack. I couldn’t fix my situation as a photographer until I learned to elicit emotions in women. Until I could try to attract them on an emotional level rather than a rational level.
Once I did that, my skills and other forms of attraction helped me to be more attractive.
Now, I wasn’t trying to become the best guy on paper, but I actually managed to attract them on an emotional level. And then on top of that, I had all these other great things going for me as well.
I encourage you to take action and work on attracting people on an emotional level.
3) How To Arouse Others' Emotions:
That raises the question of how one learns to arouse others' emotional desires.
A quick and easy exercise I like to call "avoid the Centre" is one of my favorite ways to train it. We use it with our coaching clients. As easy as it seems, it actually is. Always attempt to steer clear of that safe grey space in the Centre when speaking to ladies.
To help you understand everything a little bit better, I'll use an example.
Let's say a woman you like starts gushing about how much she adores raisins. Because raisins are tasty and lovely and blah, blah, blah, she would put them in everything. On the other side, you despise raisins.
Some men may not express their dislike of raisins if they like a woman who likes raisins. They're repulsive!
They might say, "sometimes they're okay," or something similar. And that's exactly what'll stop you from inciting feelings of attraction.
Expressing your thoughts and ideas more often can help you better share your values, goals, and aspirations with others
For instance, you could say, "Raisins, they look like swallowed ticks," in response to this circumstance. How could anyone find that appealing?
Is saying that in a respectful manner? No. Is that the most attractive thing somebody could ever say to a woman in such circumstances? No. Is that something that will make you friends easily? Hell no, but if you want to learn to make ladies FEEL rather than THINK, this is a terrific exercise.
Conclusion:
By following the steps outlined above, you will be able to increase the chances of attracting a woman who is not interested in you. Be sure to work on yourself, build an emotional connection, and arouse her emotions. With these tips, you will be able to make a great first impression and build a connection that lasts.
