how to make a kickass first impression - 6 first impression tips
One research showed that women, who are slower to smile. The incorporate world was perceived as having more credibility and integrity.
This is because a slower smile looks more sincere. So when you meet someone avoid giving a quick smile. First, look them in the eye absorb their presence, and then slowly give them your warm smile.
This will appear more genuine and will make her smile as if it’s only meant for that person. So when you come across someone in the hallway or the street.
As you approach that person look her in the eye first. Smile and then greet her with her name. Or simply say hello.
If you’re strangers, this will have a big positive impact on the first impression. So remember to look, smile slowly, and then mentioned that person’s name as said by Dale Carnegie.
Our names are the sweetest and most important sound in any language in this world.
#1: STICKY EYES
We’ve always been told that strong eye contact is a basic communication skill. That must always be applied especially when your conversation is important.
But why? Strong eye contact both in business and romantic situations have a strong positive impact. Because it awakens feelings of respect and affection.
It also conveys intelligence because it shows comprehension and analytical skills. But you must be careful not to overdo it when you’re both men.
Because men may feel uneasy by prolonging eye contact only apply sticky eyes. When you’re having a casual conversation, but do it less. When conversing about personal topics.
#2) EPOXY EYES
This involves three persons. Yourself, your target, and the other person or the speaker. Each time the speaker makes a point look at your target.
And observe his or her reaction. This will send a message that you are interested in your target. Similar warning with the sticky eye you should be careful not to overdo it.
Or otherwise, you will be seen as arrogant to avoid this from happening. Only glance at your target whenever the speaker finishes a point.
#3) HANG BY YOUR TEETH
If you want to look like somebody. Then you must act like one. In body language what your body achieves the mind believes.
If you want to be perceived as somebody, as you walk into any room restaurant, meeting, or any social event. Then you must look like one.
You must stand and walk like somebody, make looking like somebody. A habit by practicing good posture as you walk every doorway hold your head high, your shoulders back.
Chest out, eyes straight, smile confidently, and walk as if the floor is yours. This is the ideal image for someone who is a somebody.
#4) THE BIG BABY PIVOT
When meeting a new person give your undivided attention by fully facing her. And showing a warm smile. In body language facing your body fully to a person, when talking.
Is a sign of openness along with open arms and a smile. It sends a message that the other person is special. Worthy of your attention and will make her feel that you are likable.
In Robert Greene’s art of seduction, we are drawn to people who are open and not defensive. Because they remind us of our childhood and lost innocence.
#5) HELLO OLD FRIEND
Self-help books on how to become people smart. Have always said you must learn to like people. Before they can like you.
That you must show genuine interest to them. Before they can open up to you. That has always been the key to get passed through people’s defenses.
But what if you’re truly a shy person. The key is to trick your mind that you are meeting an old friend. Before even meeting the person or upon coming across a potential friend.
Mentally pretend you are meeting someone you fully know and you really like. A familiar friend or long-lost childhood friend.
From here on your body will open up tension will ease down. And your gestures and words will start to flow naturally.
#6) LIMIT THE FIDGET
When body language is crucial in your conversation. A job interview, impressing someone you like, or conducting a speech.
You must be careful not to give off any signals. That may harm your credibility, avoid small movements that show impatience, nervousness, or insecurities.
These are movements such as twitching, scratching your nose, and wiggling. Another common mistake is crossing your arms.
Which shows defensiveness. It might be because you feel cold, but it may appear negatively. When body language is important.
So when your credibility is at stake limit your body movements.
